When I started thinking on this subject, it seemed to me that I have too little competence. But the results of the intellectual sexiness test strengthened my self-love and induced me to finish what had been started and to publish it.
On the one hand, sex sells and the TV sets as well as the press kiosks are full of half-stripped bodies. On the other hand, it tends to be paltry, intimate, or vulgar to talk about sexiness among literate people. Some avoid talking about it maybe because they feel not being physically attractive and hope to get attention for other achievements. Others might think that this theme should only be touched in a sleeping room with their second halves, and everybody who expresses herself publicly is an impudent fool. The brave ones manipulate sexiness and go forward to the bright future. And I am just inviting you to contemplate about that.
In my opinion, sexiness is one of the features of a perfect person. And, I’d say, it is only one fifth of nature and the rest is the effort of will. But what is it? You cannot learn it at school (probably unless that’s a school for models). Everyone conceives that differently, but I try to understand the essence.
As a smart guy from the past said once, a healthy mind is in a healthy body(1). Every person needs at least hygiene and body care. The stinking smell of sweat is not attractive. Uncomfortable overweight is not alluring. Neither are various diseases. I guess, the wish to have a healthy partner is related to subconscious will to get healthy descendants and to have a close person who will help you to support them. You don’t need enormous welfare nor efforts for tasty healthy food, vitamins, a little bit more active lifestyle, and a piece of soap.
If you take off your shirt or put on tights, that won’t mean that you become sexy immediately. For example, totally frozen girls without jackets or other warmer cloths waiting in the rows at clubs in London, raise nothing but a pity. Sexy cloths are those which emphasize the body shapes, but one shouldn’t forget that each cloth has its own wearing time.
Not only the external looks is important, but also behavior and manners, body language, sights, voice, and the activeness during the intimate moments. Feminine girls are sexy to me, as well as manly guys are probably sexy to girls(2). I comprehend the femininity and the manliness not only as the external features, but also as a trait of character which reflects in the behavior. Mild and graceful girls are more attractive to me than clumsy vixens. I guess, tough and determined guys with high self-esteem attract girls more than shy cowards sitting in dark corners.
Related movies:
- Lost in Translation – erotic platonic love.
- Swimming Pool – women of different generations fall in love with the same guy.
- Closer – the tangle of the love stories of two couples.
- The Dreamers – poetically voluptuous movie about an American in Paris.
Don’t form a false opinion that I consider sexiness the main trait of a personality. Anyway, I would like to know what you think on the subject. Is the sexiness of your girlfriend or boyfriend important to you? Is this human feature worth discussing? Should sexiness be masked in public spaces? What do you think about manipulation by short skirts? Can a person be smart and sexy at the same time? What about moral and sexy?
(1) Mens sana in corpore sano (Juvenal)
(2) I can hardly understand how the sexiness is evaluated among sexual minorities. For example, if one of the gays likes another gay’s femininity, why doesn’t he just choose a woman?
Tags: life, psychology, sociology
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